Gerard in Rock Sound

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MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE
Interview: Andrew Kelham

Have you thought about how My Chemical Romance will reintroduce themselves to music fans in 2010? Do you ever wonder if your band is still needed in music?
Says Gerard Way (vocals):
"It's funny because the musical landscape is ever changing, but I think there's always a place for us and I think we're absolutely needed, especially now. I don't say that with any arrogance, I just really believe in my band and I believe that our band does what it does better than anybody else. There's no one that can do this like us. I feel a gap when we are gone and I hope people do too, if they don't then we're not doing our job properly. I think we're absolutely needed, but I'm glad we're coming back in 2010 because, as much as people need us, I think they needed a break from us too. I hope we got the balance of that right."

What have you tried to achieve with your forthcoming fourth album? How is it different from you past work?
"With this record we tried to ignore all the cosmetic nonsense and focus on becoming a truly great rock band. We felt that the world needed a really straight and pure rock band, you're hard pressed to find a lot of those these days. It was less about the theatricality and more about how we become the greatest young American rock band musically."

How are you adapting to fatherhood?
"It's great, it's amazing. Obviously we just wanted a healthy baby, but I was excited to have a girl as there are things I can see myself helping a girl with that I could never do with a guy, things like picking out clothes and stealing eyeliner, all that sort of stuff!"

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Comments

[spuzz.livejournal.com]

But I don't think this discussion has a place here.
The discussion has a place wherever it comes up. The topic can be discussed anywhere it comes up for whatever reason because it's a problem of our society as a whole. In a community about My Chemical Romance where there are fans that are female, where Gerard has discussed and brought up gender roles it has a place. Absolutely. If you don't want to PARTICIPATE in said discussionm, that is your choice but may not be the choice of others.

As a side note, I don't agree that we came up with the rules for gender - I think the rules were based off of general observations and are maybe just more strict than is fitting.
Where did those observations come from? When did they happen? Why if they come from observations like you say, have they remained strict instead of fluid? People are not static, they change and develop along with society and as such "roles", should change as well or fade away entirely. But part of the process is being aware of them, discussing them and being self aware as well as societally aware. I don't have to accept anything placed upon me by society because I have free thought, as do you. I don't want to have children, does this make me a lesser woman because I'm not following society's ideas of what a woman should do? Or just an individual who doesn't want to have children?

Bandit hasn't grown up yet. Nobody knows what kind of person she'll be or what she'll be into but based off of general norms, she's way more likely to be into girly things than their kid would if it was a boy. That's just a fact.
This is an illustration of the problem. WHY is that so? WHY is that a fact to you? IS that a fact? Why, before her birth, before she has formed a personality is she being molded into what you believe a girl does or likes? That makes no sense. Your use of "norms" implies that her love of "girly" things would make her normal. What is normal? Why is that normal? Do we all have the same normal? Should we all have the same normal?

And edited to add: I also want people to let ME know when I am saying something problematic or offensive because that gives me the ability to change and adapt and look back and say "oh maybe I shouldn't have said that because [whatever reason]" It gives me an opportunity to grow and change. So I tend to view statements with the same critical eye, especially with someone I admire (like Gerard for instance).

Sorry for the multiple edits! I am a fail typer today.